Amazingly true...... after watching "Ferrari ki Sawari" that thought has been doing rounds in my mind. Yes the movie was naive in some parts but not naive enough to be bashed up by stupid critics who went thier hearts out for Shanghai (I was feeling as if I was watching crime patrol only Anup Soni was missing). The intention here is not how good or bad the movie was but the message of the movie was more like a genie in the bottle for growing parents, me being one of them. Every time we see parents complaining about their kids not doing well or not listening to anyone.... well all this happens due the constant ignorance to the little things in life which leads to keep a impression on the minds of the kid. The best thing of human nature is it improvises whatever it learns and implements it to the best use possible. The best things you could have seen in real life is older times (may be applicable now too) how the eldest son would end up being a Patriach figure of the joint family nothing but a outcome of a role model played by his dad.
The idea here is not come up with irrelevant examples but look into things which matter the most. They learn fast. Things like never fight in front of your kids, never hide anything form your kids, be strategically open to them, cause the day they start keeping things away from you know what happens. Learn to accept decision of your spouses with a positive argument for this will lead to very natural listener of kids. I am a big fan of Maslow's 'theory of conditioning' though i know very few things from it. The application of maslow's theory in our normal lives will benefit all even the pets of the family. All Things said a belated Happy Fathers day to all the father's of the world including my own. A friend wished me a few days back and it felt so damn gooood.
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